I am sorry I have not been posting. I have had a death in my family and along with my upcoming marriage to my Master and honeymoon I will not have the time or place to post. I hope to be back posting in mid September.
Lin
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Little Big Update
6 years ago
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My Dearest lin
Thank you for your contribution, I have found your posts full of wisdom. I want to wish you all the very best for your wedding. You cannot see it at the moment but everything will be more wonderful once you are married. Marriage has a completely different feeling as suddenly everything is for life. Here are some suggestions that you may wish to consider:
Checkout a “Covenant Marriage” This is a marriage where you both strictly limit the grounds for divorce. A “Covenant Marriage” makes it legally harder to divorce. As you know I am a very strong believer that marriage is for life and if I had my marriage again I would have used the “Covenant Marriage” laws.
Construct you wedding vows very carefully. This is a binding agreement that you must live by for life. Be sure that you both agree and your vows completely set out the marriage that you both want.
Add a much ritual to marriage as possible. (Have two weddings if needed) With ritual comes the power to bind you together. The level of ritual should leave you overwhelmed with emotion. I recently attended to two weddings. One was held in a restaurant and was so weak it was pathetic, while the other was held a huge church with full ritual and everyone could feel the power of the message being delivered. I know which provided the best foundation.
Look at your wedding as your founding document and ceremony. It is like “The Constitution” of your lives together. It must contain the power needed to serve you well. With your wedding you a laying down a foundation upon which must stand for a lifetime, do not lay down a pebble make sure you lay down a huge and deep slab of granite.
All my love precious being
AKM
My very best wishes, dear Lin, and congratulations to the groom.
Sincerely,
Kate.
Thank you both for your kind wishes and messages.
Lin
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