Random Musings 7/14

A more honest and accurate way to date?

My Master and I had an interesting conversation on merging all the concepts of the reality of dating, what people say they are looking for and why they really go out for at first with someone and all those how to find books. We came up with a rather cynical how to concept ourselves and you only get one guess to which of us thought up which parts.


So men and women are you really wanting to find that good person, who has a sense of humor, intelligent, trustworthy and all those other characteristics everyone mentions they want when looking for their other? Then why are so many of you deciding and evaluating dates on things that have nothing to do with those qualities?

Women are you tired of men playing a part just so you will fuck them and then they change after you do? Men are you tired of only being evaluated at first by how entertaining you can be and what type of social events and money you are willing to spend on a woman?

Well with the William and Lin plan to getting through the junk and onto the actual compatibility and qualities we tell people we are looking for is what our plan is all about. It is simple and basic our plan is before ever going out on the first date to agree to a ten date contract.

In the contract the following ten aspects are to be strictly adhered to:

1) A mutually agreeable total amount of money that the man has to spend on the actual dates for things like food, tickets and other direct out of pocket expenses that would only be spent because of the date. New shirt does not count.

2) Within those ten dates the woman has the right for up to three of these dates to be things or events that involve couple things like going out with their couple friends, weddings/office parties and family get together type things.

3) A woman can have no more then two dates stipulated to by the woman that dancing is a main goal of the date outside of a meal.

4) The woman has the right to have at least one date involve the man’s friends and/or family.

5) For the first five dates immediately upon one arriving at the other’s home the female will proceed to strip naked and have sex with the man before going on the date. At least once but no more then twice a blow job to completion with an honest finish of are you a spit or swallow woman. Hand jobs are unacceptable and absolutely at no time during or at the end of these first five dates is any other sexual activity to happen regardless of mutual desire.

6) A mutual agreement on how many and for how long any phone calls between dates are strictly adhered to.

7) The man has a right for one date to drop by unannounced to see if the woman always does keep her house clean and organized.

8) The woman must wear panties that are the same as the ones she normally wears to work or what she will wear if they were to be married.

9) The woman must order what she would normally order and not what she wants the man to think she normally eats like.

10) Only one date may there be some combination that the date only involves the woman cooking dinner and/or watching a DVD at one of the person’s home.

Only after the ten dates may the people decide if the person is worth more time. No escape clause for a reason so everyone entering into the relationship is serious about finding a significant other and not just after sex or entertainment. Any mailing it in by a male will have money and or event dates like attending weddings added to the contract with the woman’s choice. Any mailing it in by the woman will have added mandatory sexual activity for the man if so desired.

Fuck me like a cop and not a lawyer!

This was a quick line in a quick scene in American Gangster in which Russell Crowe was giving it what appeared rough and hard to a woman. I saw this on DVD this weekend and it just reverberated in my head what often is lacking in the modern vanilla man and another reason I love my life as a slave to a domineering man.


Now I have had sex with cops and lawyers and know of no significant difference and while this line may have been a dig at lawyers the overall point is quite valid. Most women like variety in their sex life and I do not know of one woman personally that does not want it hard and rough at times and that should always be in the toolbox of any man regardless of role to give a woman. Most women need/love at times just to feel like the man just totally staked claim to our bodies and left us feeling royally fucked and not made loved to.

There is a good reason why so many women quote Ayn Rand about the overall feeling they love to feel when it comes to sex and their man.

One more tip on online profiles

Women think in overall feelings and men specific actions. Men write a woman and a profile with this in mind as the woman does not really care about the specific toys or things done as much as the overall feeling and atmosphere is going to be like with you. Women be aware men would like some detail in what you are looking for and not just flowery feelings expressed.